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Maybe you're not doing anything wrong? Maybe it's not your fault? Maybe your wife doesn't want to have sex with you because she wouldn't want to have sex with whomever she had been married to, regardless who it is, even if it was Hugh Grant with the lost-puppy eyes, if she had been married to anyone else as long as you two have been married. The fact is, in general, women want to have sex less than men do. This accords with common observation. If women did want to have sex as much as men do, then they would spread their legs as readily as men want them to, without all the preconditions, wouldn't they? But they don't. Even Hugh Grant has to pay a woman to just do it, if he wants her to do it without alll the rigmarole. The fact women don't want to do it so much, doesn't mean it's men's fault. (It doesn't mean it's women's fault either. It just means the sexes are different.) You could always try asking for your wife's consent to you having sex with some other woman. (This will still leave a big hassle trying to get the second woman to say yes to sex.)
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