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This is a sensitive subject for me - I have had non-consensual sex in the sense that I did not, or cannot remember, consenting and did not want to have sex with the male involved. I was more than a little tipsy, and of course when once gyrates on the dance floor one is interested in attracting male attention. But wanting attention is not the same thing as wanting sex. When men go to nightclubs, they should know that some women will want attention and only attention, and if they (the men) can't handle that then perhaps they shouldn't go! You seem to assume that advertising for attention is advertising for sex. I think that is incorrect and is just a way of letting men off the hook, although I realise there are some shades of grey in this.
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